Apparently, the ever-in-dispute provenance of the Serenity prayer continues to be in dispute:
Generations of recovering alcoholics, soldiers, weary parents, exploited workers and just about anybody feeling beaten down by life have found solace in a short prayer that begins, “God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change.”
Now the Serenity Prayer is about to endure a controversy over its authorship that is likely to be anything but serene.
For more than 70 years, the composer of the prayer was thought to be the Protestant theologian Reinhold Niebuhr, one of modern Christianity’s towering figures. Niebuhr, who died in 1971, said he was quite sure he had written it, and his wife, Ursula, also a prominent theologian, dated its composition to the early 1940s.
Apparently, a librarian at Yale University has found some close parallels to the prayer dating from the 1930s. This, needless to say, has upset Niebuhr's daughter, Elisabeth Sifton.
His daughter Elisabeth Sifton, a book editor and publisher, wrote a book about the prayer in 2003 in which she described her father first using it in 1943 in an “ordinary Sunday service” at a church in the bucolic Massachusetts town of Heath, where the Niebuhr family spent summers.
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Ms. Sifton faults Mr. Shapiro’s approach as computer-driven and deprived of historical and theological context. In an interview, she said her father traveled widely in the 1930s, preaching in college chapels and to church groups — especially Y.M.C.A.’s and Y.W.C.A.’s — and could have used the prayer then. She said she fixed the date of its composition to 1943 in her book, “The Serenity Prayer: Faith and Politics in Times of Peace and War” (W. W. Norton, 2003), because she had relied on her parents’ recollections.
Ms. Sifton said the newly unearthed quotations were merely evidence that her father’s spellbinding preaching had had a broad impact. And she said she took greatest umbrage at Mr. Shapiro’s notion that the prayer was so simple that it could have been written by almost anyone in any era.
“There is a kind of austerity and humility about this prayer,” Ms. Sifton said, “that is very characteristic of him and was in striking contrast to the conventional sound of the American pastorate in the 1930s, who were by and large optimistic, affirmative, hopeful.”
In her book, Sifton does an excellent job relating the prayer to her father's theological and ethical point of view, demonstrating that Niebuhr's particular wording (which is different from the well-known AA version of the prayer), places its emphasis on the grace to accept with serenity that which cannot be changed, and the courage to change, not simply those things that can be changed, but precisely those things that should be changed, and the wisdom to tell the one from the other. That particular wording is an important element of Sifton's argument, so even if there are some versions that are similar, it doesn't take away from the particular contribution of Niebuhr's authorship.
However, whether Sifton is right that these earlier versions reflect the influence of her father's preaching, and his use of similar prayers before the 1940s, I think what Gary Dorrien says at the end of the article may also be true:
“What has the ring of truth to me is that some of the phrases in it, the gist of it, he heard or came into contact with in some way that he wouldn’t have remembered, since he’s not a scholarly, bookwormish person with habits of scholarly exactitude anyway.”
“He is a preacher. He is coming into contact with things and blending them,” Professor Dorrien said, adding that for preachers, “it’s an occupational hazard.”